my take on unreasonable girlfriends

*in this post, i not going to tell out the names of my guy friends. god wonder what will happen to them if their girlfriends accidentally come across my blog.

situation 1:
A is in a relationship with his girl for the past 2 years and if there's a word for him to describe his relationship, it'll be none other than stress! once, A went out with his friends during late midnight and when he told his girl about it the next morning, the only respone from her was " i don't want to hear outdated news". WTF? what do you expect A to do? call her up middle of the night and say that his going out with his friends now? of course not!

oh, there's another situation where i find it more fuck-up. A called his girl right after her exam and was told that she's feeling down and don't feel like talking to anyone at the moment. so A gave her some space to cool down and when he called her the next morning, his girl gave him a 1/2 hour nice screwing on how disappointed she was with him because he never bother to console her even when she hinted that she's down. Crazy, right?

few weeks ago, A's roommate's girl came over to their place and fell asleep on the bed while watching movies. when he told me about it, i was like "wah!! you guys threesome ar?". sadly, his girl's respone wasn't the same as mine. immediately she asked A to wake the sleeping couples up and tell them straight off that she don't like the idea of having another girl in her boy's room. of course A refused. tell me, who on the right mind will do such a thing? and there his bitchy girl go again saying how she's so disappointed with him and that he never cared about her feelings....bla bla bla...and the list goes on.

my take: i'm not a controlling person by birth. i don't like the idea of couple doing "daily report" to one another because it's as though you're being tied down and left with no privacy. it also feels like as if you don't trust your boy at all. nonsense! and on behalf of A, i say: shut the hell up bitch. i had enough of your stuck up attitude. let's just break up.

situation 2:
B is also another patient guy who tolerated his bitchy girl's attitute for the past 7 years. yes, you read it right. 7 freaking hell years and still don't have the thoughts of breaking up with her. *sweat. once, B was deadly asleep after a long tiring day at work. his girl called him middle of the night, ordering him to pick her up from somewhere. his girl gave him a 10 minutes of hell screwing the minute he says NO. feeling annoyed, he grab his keys and went straight to pick up his girl. its already bad that his kindness wasn't appreciated, his girl somemore gave him the "why-are-you-late" look the moment he arrives. *fuck-up right such girlfriends? tsk tsk tsk...shake head. troublesome girls.

my take: i'll just wish my boyfriend goodnight and maybe try calling my parents/ sister or friends as an alternative. even if i were to call my boyfriend up middle of the night, i'll make sure his rewarded with hugs and kisses the minute he arrives.

situation 3:
C is also another victim of unreasonable girlfriends. his girl of one year can be a real-sweetheart-turn-bitch anywhere, anytime without any apparent reasons. he was happily hanging on the phone with his girl one night before going over to her place. when he arrived, he was greeted with his girl's temper and tantrum. curiously, he asked his girl what went wrong. and his girl locked him out the house and asked him to figure it out himself. *smack forehead. his girl got upset when he couldn't figure out what went wrong because in her opinion, it's a guy's responsibility to know what got their girl so angry. as usual, he then received his almost 20 minutes lecture from his girl. *smack forehead.

my take: it's not a guys fault for not being able to figure out what went wrong with their girl's mood swing. i always think that if a girl isn't happy with their boy's attitude, doings or whatsoever, just say it out in a nice way. put it into discussion and who knows both of you might come up with a discussion?

situation 4:
D told me one example on his routine argument with his girl one night. things got out of control and his girl threw a string of insulting words at him like "i hate you", "you're the worst boyfriend among my other ex boyfriends", "you're not worth my love", etc.. horrified, i asked him how did he handled the situation. and his respone was "like this lor. she said it out so frequent that i already got used to it".

my take: WTH!!! how can a girl say such hurtful words to their boyfriend? this words shouldn't be said out at all! it's so hurtful especially "you're the worst boyfriend among my other ex boyfriend". i wonder how can D stand it? if it was me, i'll make sure i slap the hell out of her.

situation 5:
this situation is not related to any of my friends at all. i heard it from mix.fm's she says, he says morning talk. this guy was telling serena c, ika and pietro that his girl kept a diary of the things they'd argue before. so during the next arguement, his girl will bring out that diary and argue over the same thing again.

my take: *sweat. what the freaking hell is wrong with his girl la? isn't the past, the past? never bring the past into the current arguement. it's so WRONG!

being a girl myself, i don't think i'll ever understand how a girl's genuinely brain function. quite a number of my friends told me that i have the personality of a guy, but the apperance of a girl. i point the blame at shyong.

you see, the beautiful part of shyong is that on and off, he'll share with me some lessons or experience he'd come across in life. i dare tell you that if i ever put him through hell like one of the situation mentioned above, hundred percent guaranteed that he'll just give me a free kick to timbaktu. unlike my other ex boyfriends, shyong don't tolerate princess tantrums and emphasize more on freedom. he see things from a different angle and thinks beyond. 4 years with him had taught me to be more responsible, more understanding, more mature and less possessive.

having to go through so much in life, i find that the most fragile thing on earth is life and relationship. you might be alive one minute and gone the next minute. same thing applies to a relationship. a minute ago, you passionately kiss your boy and the next minute, it's goodbye between the two of you. so in my case, i won't know when will be the last time i'm going to kiss my boy, when is the next time i'm going to say "i love you" or when is the next time i'm going to hold his hand. so instead of wasting time on fighting, i rather use all the time to do all the things that i've not done with him. and no, i don't believe in the saying "fights make a relationship better" neither do i like fightings.

agreed by most guys, fight makes a girl a total bitch.

to all those loving and patient boyfriends who are still trying to tolerate their unreasonable girlfriend's shitness, please please please learn how to say NO to your girls once in a while. as much as you would like to pamper them, but over pampering do no good to you. they'll eventually climb to the top of your head and become king. show them who's the boss once in a while. please bear in mind also that you're born to love & to be loved and not to be tortured by your girls. if you can't take it anymore, just walk away. your girl isn't the only one. there are plenty more out there. and please don't give me those shits like "i can't leave her because i've already de-flowered her." it's already 21st century. nobody still sticks to that shit anymore. moreover, you guys did it willingly and happily.

to all those unreasonable girlfriends out there, stop being a total bitch by concentrating on bullshits like fighting and nagging. instead, emphasize more on how to reward your boys. their hardwork needs to be appreciated! a simple kiss or hug will be fine enough for them. you won't know when is the last time you'll be able to kiss, hug or say "i love you" to them. so do it more often! there are many lonely souls out there longing to be pampered by their boys. so if you just don't know how to appreciate your boys, just let them off to find someone better and more deserving.

"girls don't be too overdoing it. seriously... it's just stupid"

- wei shyong